Things about Relationships I wish someone told me about

2019-ж., 7-апр.
18 408 199 Көрүүлөр

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  • This is good quality information that a lot of people I know should hear. I hope to be able to improve my relationships using this guide.

    Kaledon GrandyKaledon Grandy12 мүнөт мурун
  • 7: 22 himiko toga from bnha

    Alwin WooAlwin Woo15 мүнөт мурун
  • 6:30 Omg my name in a jaiden video!! That’s lit 👌🏻

    JustRiley3000JustRiley300034 мүнөт мурун
  • I been/am in a manipulative relationship one time a kid told me "pathetic loser I can make you gay in a week" AND BOOM I they made me date them in a week second a kid will call me ugly and give me hugs btw I'm in 6th grade he tells me your not good enough I can help you with it

    Art FoxArt FoxСаат мурун
  • ooohhh is that toga

    Claire NguyenClaire NguyenСаат мурун
  • Omg jaiden you speak so truely I thank you for this video!

    Fleur McculloughFleur McculloughСаат мурун
  • Solid advice

    Skippy DinglechalkSkippy Dinglechalk2 саат мурун
  • 7:22 Toga!!!!!!

    Lilli HarrisLilli Harris3 саат мурун
  • I really needed this. I recently cut off my aunt and I felt so bad because she raised me, but her response to it just sealed. She refuses to take medicine for her BPD and it causes her to ruin every personal relationship. I was the last one in the family to actually keep contact as long as I did. When I pointed out she needed therapy, to go to rehab for her drug problem, and divorce her equally toxic husband, she screamed at me. I put it in the nicest way possible, but I know that stuff is hard to hear. She put me down, said I would fail and come crawling back. Yeah it's hard knowing I don't have the support, but it's better in the long run.

    PodcastishPodcastish4 саат мурун
  • This happend to me while i was young my age was like 9 year old 😢😢

    Hazel OropelHazel Oropel5 саат мурун

    Red DiamondRed Diamond6 саат мурун
  • I really wish someone told me this a long time ago.

    D VD V6 саат мурун
  • Jokes on you, None of us have any friends!

    Thepizzaboy0908 crusaderThepizzaboy0908 crusader6 саат мурун
  • This helps alot and it's hard because I don't want to break off the relationship me and him have been friends for 5years but him being a half blooded german satin-est and me being a greek orthodox child has its ups and downs I don't mind dark humor but his form if it is umm... let's say it's completely out of my ball park from time to time we get along well but when it comes to games I have to get used to the way he plays or he bosses me around to do stuff it's weird to because I'm 7 years older then he is (I'm 17 he's 11) now I know I could just be loud and mean but I'm sensitive to many things and he knows that so ya we don't always argue but when we do it's like there is literally no limit to him for name calling (everything is used from racist to his own german slurs) so ya

    Demitri earthDemitri earth8 саат мурун
  • dont swear dats bad

    Morgan AdamsMorgan Adams9 саат мурун
    • It's not exactly bad, it's just words that can be offensive (some more than others)

      bagel boysbagel boys3 саат мурун
  • I wonder if this one could help me just to watched the previous one that didn't help

    Ethan SlaterEthan Slater9 саат мурун
  • Hah and then theres me growing up in a family of manipuletive narcisists, completly resistent to any kind of manipulation but completly broken with trust issues... :D

    Dimitri van der HelDimitri van der Hel11 саат мурун

    Gender fluid SpaghettiGender fluid Spaghetti12 саат мурун
  • 🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿here is some popcorn

    Imani McmillanImani Mcmillan16 саат мурун
    • Thanks

      bagel boysbagel boys3 саат мурун
  • Hey jaiden thanks to this video im starting to become an adult now and since im starting to understand thins now and this really helps a lot

    Dark PastDark Past16 саат мурун
  • Santa, it’s April

    Angel VargasAngel Vargas16 саат мурун
  • I see that you speak from experience with drugs in a party.

    George BakerGeorge Baker17 саат мурун
  • I think i do have a toxic with my cousin where she gets mad at me she says she will always say she wont get mad at me but.she will always do it over and over again she calls me dumb stupid the worst and but if i just understand her maybe?

    bloody_ randombloody_ random17 саат мурун
  • When toga being confident and wanna do it 7:22

    NuraidaNuraida18 саат мурун
  • 6:40 "If things don't change" Dude with police cap: * yeets him over the wall * Me: now remember kids, if things don't change just yeet them over the wall

    Jilen MendozaJilen Mendoza19 саат мурун
  • I've been in one of those kinds of "do this or I'll hurt myself" relationships for like 3 years

    Camden BabbCamden Babb20 саат мурун
    • Gotta let em stand on their own. If they need you that much and it’s dragging you down and hurting you, then tell them. Something polite like hey I know your in pain and throwing one more thing on your own “I’m shit” list makes you want to hurt yourself but this has consequences on me too. This is probably unsolicited advice but I’m hoping it helps a little. Pulling for the best you 👍🏻

      Kaledon GrandyKaledon Grandy8 мүнөт мурун

    Huan pablo T NuquiHuan pablo T Nuqui20 саат мурун
  • The ecosystem thing why does that sound like animal crossing

    MacPastelMacPastelКүн мурун
  • Am I a red flag for putting just one tiny breadcrumb in the butter?

    Cristian plays gamesCristian plays gamesКүн мурун
    • Yes you heathen. You are why gluten intolerant people get their food contaminated.

      Kaledon GrandyKaledon Grandy7 мүнөт мурун
  • Santa: but I'm Santa Claus Jaiden: alright gray area Me: pffffffttt

    MaryThe SadWolfieMaryThe SadWolfieКүн мурун
  • I was with a girl for nine months who I loved more than anyone I had ever met, but I was the toxic one in the relationship... I didn't notice it at the time amazingly but simply looking back on it I was terrible. I was an asshole who put her down and talked shit about her friends all the time, I was controlling and manipulative. She started liking someone else and I was pissed at the time, I thought I had given her everything but I was so mean and awful to her and my/her friends. She left me and over the next year, all those "friends" cut me out of their lives... I spent the next three years being pissed at her, my "friends" and everyone I met. It was only about last year when I realized all this... and I just wish so much I could go back in time and take all that back... In the end, I don't blame them for leaving me, I'm just pissed at myself for what I did.

    Robert SchmidtRobert SchmidtКүн мурун
    • I’m proud that you were able to stand up to yourself and own up to the mistake. This is how self improvement happens.

      Kaledon GrandyKaledon Grandy4 мүнөт мурун
  • i honestly dont know if I'm in a toxic relationship at the moment. I've been with my girlfriend for a year now, she's extremely depressed and it's difficult for her to get help and it's taken a damper on us sometimes. she really is trying, the problem is that she doesn't think that she is, and instead thinks she's not doing good at all, and it keeps going into this repeating cycle of "i promise I'm going to do better" to "i dont feel like i can do this anymore" i dont know... i love her, and other than personal issues, we're in a really good relationship, and she doesn't force her problems onto me, but I know she needs help, and I'm just scared that if she doesn't get it soon then things might worsen... but I can't convice her, it's just.. really difficult, and I really don't want to leave her, but i know the problems are hurting mine and her mental health, and we're both so focused on not trying to cause problems for each other, because we love each other so much. I'm just really unsure of what to do

    happy bethiehappy bethieКүн мурун
  • 2:30 more humanized than when we talk about them? I’m confused by what she said

    Dixie NormousDixie NormousКүн мурун
    • I think she’s saying real situations usually have a lot more factors at play that effect all aspects of it than an verbal example provided. She said earlier that feelings can often be complicated by history.

      Kaledon GrandyKaledon Grandy41 секунд мурун
  • 3:23 I'm just gonna leave this here

    slothy boi 3060slothy boi 3060Күн мурун
  • Honestly I tell my mom this EVERY DAY!!!!

    Tragic GamingTragic GamingКүн мурун
  • Thank you, this helped me realize that the cut off from my friend max who I’ve had since kindergarten who I’ve shared my INNER SECRETS WITH was not a bad decision because they had threatened and talked down to me for the last year wich had just developed and made my brain do the thing where they were a good person to me but that toxic waste they were dumping just made them say “Well how was I supposed to know IDIOT”

    Twig mationsTwig mationsКүн мурун
  • Thanks for adding toga to a video

    ShadowMoonlight_Gaming GAMESShadowMoonlight_Gaming GAMESКүн мурун
  • God I wish that weren’t me

    Hazardous HarleighHazardous HarleighКүн мурун
  • "Someone shouldn't need you, they should want you." Yea, I found that out the hard way. That's why I love my friend group now.

    Koshi SugawaraKoshi SugawaraКүн мурун
  • red flag, C O M M U N I S M

    ShanTVShanTVКүн мурун
  • I have trouble makeing friends in 🏫 😞😞

    Kristan LaceyKristan LaceyКүн мурун
  • 7:22 is that toga?

    Olivia HernandezOlivia HernandezКүн мурун
  • 7:26 yo that's toga😂

    Paloma SPaloma SКүн мурун
  • This has helped me... there’s a girl on this app who has ruined my life by making me think she was my friend

    Wolf 96Wolf 96Күн мурун
  • 8:18 a happiness vampire is called a "vimpire"

    NoiceyNoiceyКүн мурун
  • 8:15 This mirror is broken

    Brendan likes laughsBrendan likes laughsКүн мурун
  • I remember this video came out like a week and a half after I broke up with a SUPER toxic ex who bullied me into an eating disorder and eventually self harm and a suicide attempt. I remember watching this and thinking oh goddammit Jaiden you should’ve been here like 6 months ago. Regardless, haha, I think it’s a super important lesson to learn. You shouldn’t ever have to give up your wellbeing for the sake of someone else’s. It’s nice to see Jaiden using her large platform to talk about these important things and I guarantee this video made someone realize they deserved better. Thank you Jaiden, you rock

    lizzie thompsonlizzie thompsonКүн мурун
  • I understand this like 100 percent and may be in a toxic relationship with a red flag myself, but being the stupid person I am I just avoid the fact they may be mentally abusing me. because I’ve known them for a long time. 😒💅 Also 7:23 *is that toga or what*

    ꧁『a m b e r r』꧂꧁『a m b e r r』꧂Күн мурун
  • 7:23 it’s toga......HIMKO TOGA FROM MY HERO ACADEMIA y e s

    Anything And something elseAnything And something elseКүн мурун
  • i can agree with the friend relationship. i was sexually abused by someone but i still thought they were still a good person. i shouldve notice a lot of red flags with them. this also happened for 3 years, it still makes me mad not telling someone. (dw i told my mom)

    JewelJewelКүн мурун
  • 7:22 I didn’t realize that was Toga from BNHA(MHA) After A Whole YEAR

    E1-FacultyE1-FacultyКүн мурун
  • I don't have any toxic relationships but I do think I'm ugly. (Not think know)

    Sizzled LittenSizzled LittenКүн мурун
  • 'We've been raised to think drugs are bad' another word for medication literally is drugs so like.. why parents.. why? Speaking of which, drugs are usually only terrible if you get addicted to them medicine included because some medicines are addictive and used like legitimate drugs.

    Wolfers GalaxyWolfers GalaxyКүн мурун
  • 7:21 is that toga from mha?

    xXAmy_ phantomhiveXxxXAmy_ phantomhiveXxКүн мурун
    • The fangs the hair

      xXAmy_ phantomhiveXxxXAmy_ phantomhiveXxКүн мурун
  • Hi Jaiden, I've been wanting to break up with my bf for a few months now but I didn't know how to tell him. He's been telling me since we started dating and even before, without even trying to hide it, that his best friend and myself are the only people keeping him from killing himself. I know that sounds super narcissistic, but here's literally what he said in one of our conversations "you and [his friend] are the only factors making me cling to life right now" Also I've never had a bf before and I'm pretty sure i might be asexual, im just not interested, so it's awkward because he keeps saying ily and I'm sitting here like "uHHhHHHhhh ok..uh ttyl".. heh.. My therapist has been telling me for months to break up with him, but I'm still really worried. If it's ok, I'm going to share this video with him and sit him down to talk about it. I think that's a good way of dealing with this kind of thing. also when i was writing this he texted me with the most perfect timing ever haha. Anyway i've been putting it off forever. "nooo i can't, its his birthday.." "nOOo I can't, it's 3 weeks after his birthday..." So thank you for this video, I really needed it.

    Snowdapple SnowdappleSnowdapple SnowdappleКүн мурун
  • 8:06 are approaching me?

    Yap Weng Joe YapYap Weng Joe YapКүн мурун
  • In the sunset island beggars:”I’m so ugly I won’t win! :(“ me:.....”oki :P”

    *Sen And Mel**Sen And Mel*Күн мурун
  • Jaden: not responsible for someone’s happiness Santa: but I am Santa Jaden: ok grey area

    Game on PopeGame on PopeКүн мурун
  • your manipulation wOnT chANgE my ReLatIons

    HannsTheProHannsTheProКүн мурун
  • I dont your real face

    Chhuantei RalteChhuantei RalteКүн мурун
  • Thank you Jayden u helped me go through a toxic freind that I saw a freind 😕

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  • 0:26 commie jaiden

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  • 7:23 toga is that you???

    Maylany taylorMaylany taylor2 күн мурун
  • me at the end: Bye bye jaiden and ari

    Bradley SebbageBradley Sebbage2 күн мурун
  • 8:15 forget positiveness u need a excorcist

    Arush pgArush pg2 күн мурун
  • is this a therapy session... bc its a really helpful video... =-=

    Melanie LewisMelanie Lewis2 күн мурун
  • When you said coke I thought you meant the drink-

    Sasha the catwingSasha the catwing2 күн мурун
  • did jaden say a big boy word?

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  • I watching again in 2020 cause in 2019 i am dum And i just realized i dont have real friends.... ¡~¡

    AmiGaming 002AmiGaming 0022 күн мурун
  • 7:21 *me as an mha fan* *IS THAT TOGA SHE LOOK LIKE HER AHHHHHHH*

    Jessica ParkerJessica Parker2 күн мурун
  • It would have Ben funny or the red flag to be the Soviet Unions flag

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  • My relation is my hand and my butt hahaha

    Andy JonesAndy Jones2 күн мурун
  • OMG it's satin XD

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  • 7:20 Toga ???

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  • 7:13

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  • thanks this helped me a lot

    Kailen A MooneyKailen A Mooney2 күн мурун
  • Iv seen this 10 times and eveytime I find somthing that helps. Thank you so much jadien for being such an incredible person and I hope one day she's realizes it

    Jamie-Lee DalmacioJamie-Lee Dalmacio2 күн мурун
  • this was honestly so helpful so many people have told me i'm in a toxic relationship and i definitely see it more clearly now but i'm really not confident enough or safe i thinnk to cut someone off like that but idk maybe ill figure it out. hopefully

    rebecca peitzrebecca peitz2 күн мурун
  • Now i dont need to worry to have friends :D

    Mattias GustafssonMattias Gustafsson2 күн мурун
  • “Are my other friends gonna do i-“ **S L A M**

    DionDion2 күн мурун
  • You break my phone I break your bones UwU hahah

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  • Wow! I love the ecosystem idea! I feel like I need to draw my own little island to remind me of how important my relationships are!! Thanks Jaiden!

    Lucy SLucy S2 күн мурун
  • Toxic as shi

    Chris PersonChris Person2 күн мурун
  • 7:21 Toga??.. that you?

    ÎtsŁiläcČøokîèÎtsŁiläcČøokîè2 күн мурун
  • Yall have no idea how much this video helped me,this year i finally ended a toxic friendship with a girl i knew for 10 years,and im so much happier right now and i feel so free. I really gotta thank Jaiden gor that.

    sugXr piesugXr pie2 күн мурун
  • I just got out of a toxic relationship and im having breakdown right now

    [ OtotoKitten ][ OtotoKitten ]2 күн мурун
  • I am a god Jaiden: alright not that positive 8:14

    Jay The NerdJay The Nerd2 күн мурун
  • The first few minutes of this video guilt triped me into finishing my 2020 resolution which is become a better friend

    Mazen AhmedMazen Ahmed2 күн мурун
  • Me: But Im a therapist

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  • bruh

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  • 4:15 is kinda me rn-

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  • somebody watched too much psyctogo

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  • 8:06 Manacing!!

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  • Ah

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  • Oh I love chad and sally scene mostly the ending I cant stop laughing

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  • 😓👉👈 I always sorta had a crush on Jaiden

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  • You shouldent tollorate pollution School:NANI!?!?

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